Drawing on decades of research, this book shows that mismatch and repair are a normal part of every close relationship, and that working through them builds trust, resilience and a stronger sense of self.

A short, readable collection of essays about how our brains evolved, how they work, and how they work together with other people's brains.

Explores the idea that emotions aren't simply triggered in us, but are built by the brain in the moment, shaped by a lifetime of learning.

Terry Real's first book, about the hidden depression many men carry, and how breaking the silence opens the way to strength, self-awareness and closer relationships.

Explores the emotional distance that can grow between partners, and how to bridge it through understanding old patterns, mutual respect and vulnerability.

A practical guide to the everyday skills of a healthy, grown-up relationship: speaking up with respect, listening with generosity, and replacing blame and defensiveness with honesty and repair.

Terry Real's most recent book. It looks at how our culture's focus on "me" gets in the way of closeness, and offers practical ways to turn conflict into connection and move from "you and me" to "us".

A practical and compassionate guide for parents, focused on connection, boundaries and helping children manage big feelings.

An accessible exploration of how the brain creates our experience of the world and of ourselves.

Brings together attachment theory and neuroscience to explain how therapy helps people heal from difficult experiences and relationships.

Drawing on long-term developmental research, this book looks at how the way we see ourselves and the world takes shape in our relationships, from infancy onwards.

In short chapters, a leading neuroscientist explores consciousness and the central role that feeling plays in making us who we are.

Explores how our brains are shaped by our relationships, from our earliest attachments onwards, and how close relationships continue to change the brain throughout life.